Comments on: They Went All The Way… http://clareng.com/2007/11/23/they-went-all-the-way/ Over a plate of kampua, we crap Thu, 09 Sep 2010 12:45:09 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.2 By: elaine http://clareng.com/2007/11/23/they-went-all-the-way/#comment-2505 elaine Thu, 29 Nov 2007 20:02:46 +0000 http://clareng.com/2007/11/23/they-went-all-the-way/#comment-2505 The nation needs to change it's mentality and learn to embrace a better way to solving such problem. It's not appropriate that they should make such BIG a deal about it. I just don't get it. Having living abroad for three years, it's depressing to read or hear about such cases when in actual fact there are a whole lot of other more obvious problems to be solved and to improve within the country. We are centuries behind some leading countries and I don't see the chance of ever catching up because we're so caught up in telling the nation how appropriate behaviours should be like. What's wrong with a simple act of holding hands? Is that more sinful than not wanting to mix and intergrate with people of other races? Well, that's what the majority of Malaysians are like abroad. They don't mix with people of different races back in Malaysia and they don't mix with people of different races abroad! They bring their mind-set abroad, try to tell you what's the right and wrong behaviour that you should abide to and go back with the same mind-set. The only thing that's different would perhaps be the accent! At the risk of digressing; the mentality of most Malaysians are not made to be mature enough to embrace the fact that unless you have sex publicly or do anything that involves touching private parts including women's breasts, it's perfectly fine to show affectionism to the one you love! We are made to think it's dirty when actually it is NOT. The only thing that's dirty is the thing that's going on in the head of the ones who see it as something dirty. Otherwise, it's perfetly fine... except for the couple in the toilet. I bet they're in the category of people who're attracted to taste the forbidden fruit due to all the pent-up frustration of being restricted to doing whatever other people should not meddle into in the first place. Let them do whatever they want to, no one individual or group should burden themselves with whatever sins those people want to commit. It's their problem anyway let them handle it. Like what my Russian friend says "MIND YOUR OWN BUSINESS!!!" The nation needs to change it’s mentality and learn to embrace a better way to solving such problem. It’s not appropriate that they should make such BIG a deal about it. I just don’t get it. Having living abroad for three years, it’s depressing to read or hear about such cases when in actual fact there are a whole lot of other more obvious problems to be solved and to improve within the country. We are centuries behind some leading countries and I don’t see the chance of ever catching up because we’re so caught up in telling the nation how appropriate behaviours should be like. What’s wrong with a simple act of holding hands? Is that more sinful than not wanting to mix and intergrate with people of other races? Well, that’s what the majority of Malaysians are like abroad. They don’t mix with people of different races back in Malaysia and they don’t mix with people of different races abroad! They bring their mind-set abroad, try to tell you what’s the right and wrong behaviour that you should abide to and go back with the same mind-set. The only thing that’s different would perhaps be the accent! At the risk of digressing; the mentality of most Malaysians are not made to be mature enough to embrace the fact that unless you have sex publicly or do anything that involves touching private parts including women’s breasts, it’s perfectly fine to show affectionism to the one you love! We are made to think it’s dirty when actually it is NOT. The only thing that’s dirty is the thing that’s going on in the head of the ones who see it as something dirty. Otherwise, it’s perfetly fine… except for the couple in the toilet. I bet they’re in the category of people who’re attracted to taste the forbidden fruit due to all the pent-up frustration of being restricted to doing whatever other people should not meddle into in the first place. Let them do whatever they want to, no one individual or group should burden themselves with whatever sins those people want to commit. It’s their problem anyway let them handle it. Like what my Russian friend says “MIND YOUR OWN BUSINESS!!!”

]]> By: wuching http://clareng.com/2007/11/23/they-went-all-the-way/#comment-2451 wuching Sat, 24 Nov 2007 22:54:27 +0000 http://clareng.com/2007/11/23/they-went-all-the-way/#comment-2451 <p>hehehehehe...no money for a room ah?</p> <strong>Toilet more sexciting mah... ;) </strong> hehehehehe…no money for a room ah?

Toilet more sexciting mah… ;)

]]> By: fookiat http://clareng.com/2007/11/23/they-went-all-the-way/#comment-2448 fookiat Sat, 24 Nov 2007 04:36:54 +0000 http://clareng.com/2007/11/23/they-went-all-the-way/#comment-2448 <p>lol.. you can get the full letter from me lar..</p> <strong>Haiyo, inspiration cannot wait mah. Hehehe!!!</strong> lol.. you can get the full letter from me lar..

Haiyo, inspiration cannot wait mah. Hehehe!!!

]]> By: rimus http://clareng.com/2007/11/23/they-went-all-the-way/#comment-2447 rimus Sat, 24 Nov 2007 03:59:48 +0000 http://clareng.com/2007/11/23/they-went-all-the-way/#comment-2447 <p>DOUBLE STANDARD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!</p> <strong>BETUL!!!</strong> DOUBLE STANDARD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

BETUL!!!

]]> By: whisperer http://clareng.com/2007/11/23/they-went-all-the-way/#comment-2437 whisperer Fri, 23 Nov 2007 17:26:10 +0000 http://clareng.com/2007/11/23/they-went-all-the-way/#comment-2437 <p>This is the quality of tertiary educators? Are they running a taleban's shithole or a university?<br /> omfg...mampuslah bolehland!!!</p> <strong>Its shithole university actually :D </strong> This is the quality of tertiary educators? Are they running a taleban’s shithole or a university?
omfg…mampuslah bolehland!!!

Its shithole university actually :D

]]> By: zewt http://clareng.com/2007/11/23/they-went-all-the-way/#comment-2436 zewt Fri, 23 Nov 2007 12:57:56 +0000 http://clareng.com/2007/11/23/they-went-all-the-way/#comment-2436 <p>i only got one thing to say...principal of the uni wrote that? the language is fucking horrible. </p> <p>should circulate this via e-mail.</p> <p>awareness is everything.</p> <strong>Everybody's language sucks to the max at my uni. Mine has dropped from heaven to hell if you know what I am talking about ;) </strong> i only got one thing to say…principal of the uni wrote that? the language is fucking horrible.

should circulate this via e-mail.

awareness is everything.

Everybody’s language sucks to the max at my uni. Mine has dropped from heaven to hell if you know what I am talking about ;)

]]> By: zouk http://clareng.com/2007/11/23/they-went-all-the-way/#comment-2435 zouk Fri, 23 Nov 2007 12:08:36 +0000 http://clareng.com/2007/11/23/they-went-all-the-way/#comment-2435 yeah, i agree.. obviously they are taking matters into their own hands which i strongly believe they shouldn't. i mean if those non-muslim were to make out in public then they have enough reasons to catch them, but if they were to do it privately, i dont see any reason why ur college authority should go to the extent of stalking them into the toilet and then catch and defame them, the college should learn that people of other religions need not apply to their religious rules. yeah, i agree.. obviously they are taking matters into their own hands which i strongly believe they shouldn’t. i mean if those non-muslim were to make out in public then they have enough reasons to catch them, but if they were to do it privately, i dont see any reason why ur college authority should go to the extent of stalking them into the toilet and then catch and defame them, the college should learn that people of other religions need not apply to their religious rules.

]]> By: jam http://clareng.com/2007/11/23/they-went-all-the-way/#comment-2432 jam Fri, 23 Nov 2007 07:31:03 +0000 http://clareng.com/2007/11/23/they-went-all-the-way/#comment-2432 <p>Because they have the special priviledges compared to us, remember? And we shouldn't question over their special priviledges including holding hands, etc. DAMN!</p> <strong>Oh, yea...I forgot about that!</strong> Because they have the special priviledges compared to us, remember? And we shouldn’t question over their special priviledges including holding hands, etc. DAMN!

Oh, yea…I forgot about that!

]]> By: zouk http://clareng.com/2007/11/23/they-went-all-the-way/#comment-2422 zouk Fri, 23 Nov 2007 00:34:17 +0000 http://clareng.com/2007/11/23/they-went-all-the-way/#comment-2422 <p>diu!.. this type of principal also got wan meh.. omg.. what a horror... i mean like wtf did he only mention about chinese and indians, maybe he knws we are already sick of hearing malay couples got caught red-handed making out or fornicating so he makes it a point to like make this issue a big deal once chinese and indian got caught so he can bring them down together with his own race.. how could he stoop so low as to spread a gossip email like that to tarnish the good name of other races... this is so despicable... he deserves zero respect from anyone.. SOB!</p> <strong>I have nothing against them having their own larangan (how do you call it in English again?) but taking this to this level is sickening. These kind of people is what I called the extremist, trying to be mightier than the Almighty, you get what I mean ;) </strong> diu!.. this type of principal also got wan meh.. omg.. what a horror… i mean like wtf did he only mention about chinese and indians, maybe he knws we are already sick of hearing malay couples got caught red-handed making out or fornicating so he makes it a point to like make this issue a big deal once chinese and indian got caught so he can bring them down together with his own race.. how could he stoop so low as to spread a gossip email like that to tarnish the good name of other races… this is so despicable… he deserves zero respect from anyone.. SOB!

I have nothing against them having their own larangan (how do you call it in English again?) but taking this to this level is sickening. These kind of people is what I called the extremist, trying to be mightier than the Almighty, you get what I mean ;)

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